But often avoidance by confusion or in general may become, far from the intention of peace, destructive.
Not answering to kind, friendly, loving people may mean punishing the wrong ones. That’s projection vs protection.
Don’t confuse who you should really avoid.
As long as you don’t heal from what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you.
Take care for eachother isn’t about avoidance, it’s about choosing wisely.
To choose we need clarity.
To see, hear and feel clear, we first need to take care for our own wounds and hurts instead of try to avoid them, for to transform into healing in an instant.
Hurt people hurt hurt people as long one heals and heal people heal hurt people.
Hurt is always self made, only by falling in doubt about what we take for real. It’s not the ‘real’, it’s the reaction.
Connecting with heal people brings up clarity. There are no tools, models, words or actions required.
To feel well just find a heal being, connect, resonate and synchronize.
You will be very welcome.
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